Sunday, May 20, 2012

Decamping from Orcas Island

Twelve Days on Orcas Island just isn’t enough! We are sad to be leaving, but excited to be gearing up for part 2 of our Pacific Northwest adventure. Thanks to modern technology, I can sort pictures on the fly. Here’s my favorites from the week…

 

Matt throws rocks while Ger looks on…

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Family hiking. Matthew, if only you knew what your father has planned for you.

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Moran State Park, Cascade Lake, Orcas Island, WA

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Street in Eastsound, WA. I was trying to capture the hippy – artsy, whimsical vibe of the island.

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Book Review


Book Review:
All In One Basket By Deborah Mitford, Duchess of Devonshire

My introduction to the Cavendish family’s role in history and culture was the same as for most people, through art. One of the last exhibits in NY I was able to see before we moved to NH was a collection of some of their holdings. I was very impressed, and have only seen one other family collection that could beat it

This exhibit in NY intrigued me to learn more about Devonshire line.That is how I learned about the Mitford sisters, as the Dowager Duchess of Devonshire is the youngest of that family that had a front row seat for the 20th century. I enjoyed “Wait for me!” (her previously published memoirs) so much that the combined book of her writings “All In One Basket” made the list of vacation reading.

Deborah Mitford, the youngest Mitford sister and Dowager Duchess of Devonshire, has had a very privileged and interesting life. This book of writings however, focuses mostly on her thoughts of country life and the running of Chatsworth, the Cavendish family seat. I was grateful for this, because it’s really the more interesting story (which just goes to show you how boring I am, cause she did meet Hitler and her sisters were revolutionaries. Most people would say that is much more interesting).

 Her musings on country life makes her a sort of Andy Rooney of rural England railing against, “liquid soap machine where the thing you press to get the stuff out is invisible” and extoling the virtues of “nurses in uniform, muffins and the 1662 Prayer Book.” Rural life and running a country state is held together by things such as the “Annual competition held by the Derbyshire Branch of the Dry Stone Walling Association”. It’s amusing to read, especially for this city girl.

However, hidden within these ramblings is an impressive MBA worthy story.  She and her husband saved Chatsworth from 80% death duties after WWII into a self-sustaining  tourist destination with 600,000 visitors a year (puts it on par with Graceland). Don’t let her false modesty fool you – she was in charge of managing a large organization, with several hundred people depending on the estate for their livelihood and for engineering a completely a successful turnaround. It’s not something she takes lightly, and the projects she writes about, the farm shop, educational farm and other tourist draws are studies in branding and operations management. It’s a shame she has not gotten more credit for them. 

I must admit I was smitten at the phrase “arranging flowers is impossible” in her book (it so is!) but it’s this video that takes the cake. I love how she winces while not wincing when Charlie Rose completely kills the pronunciation of “Devonshire” (he got it wrong). The end is the best when Charlie tells her that she is one of the most interesting people he’s ever met. The look on her face barely masks her thoughts. “Thank you. You are just the latest in a series of pompous wind bags I’ve had to deal with my whole life to get things done. I can’t be bothered with people who can’t be bothered to learn to pronounce Devonshire.  I’ve had more interesting conversations with my chickens.”

I hope when I am 90, that I am a fraction as awesome as the Dowager Duchess of Devonshire.

Friday, May 18, 2012

Book Review


Book Review: The Orphan Master’s Son by Adam Johnson

 “The Orphan Master’s Son” by Adam Johnson follows a fictional North Korean citizen – an orphan – Pak Jun Do (Get it? John Doe?) through a series of improbable and serendipitous events that take him from being a low-level hired gun to taking on the personality of Kim Jong II’s biggest rival.

It is a beautifully written book, especially the first half. The second half can test your ability to suspend disbelief, but is no less entertaining.  At times hilarious, at times poignant, it is also a fascinating insight into Korean culture. I wasn’t really expecting it to be so entertaining. The pages that describe a North Korean delegation coming to a Texas BBQ were particularly amusing.

I must admit I felt very guilty reading parts of this book while on vacation in such a beautiful and peaceful place as Orcas Island. When you are reading about forced labor camps and prisoners eating moths to stay alive, you really appreciate the fact that you are curled up in a comfy couch in front of fire, just having had a satisfying dinner and a glass of white wine, you child is safely asleep down the hall and there is a peaceful moonlit cove with the fattest geese you’ve ever seen behind you. 

While I appreciate literature and learn a lot from it, I hate that you run the risk of thinking everything in a novel is true. This is especially dangerous in a novel about North Korea, since we know so little about it and have no real points of reference. Do North Koreans really lobotomize their prisoners? I just don’t know and would love to know if the author just made that up. The new book by one of my favorite Dartmouth professors just went up a few notches on my reading queue. 

But back to the book: I do have a soft spot for dystopian novels, and make no mistake this is a dystopian novel. If you like the genre, then this one hits all the right spots.

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Our digs on Orcas Island…


The Inspiration for video games (Myst) and lifestyle companies (Eddie Bauer) alike, the San Juan Islands are a true gem. I was lucky enough to first visit these islands when I was a kid with my grandmother. In 2002, Ger and I came here to kick off a pacific northwest adventure. Now, ten years later, I’m really excited to be here with Ger and Matthew.
Ger rented us the most adorable house in on Maddie Lane in Judd Cove, not far from the town. The house Ger rented us has a large lawn that we can kick the ball with Matt , then go throw rocks in the water, since the cove is part of the property.
I’m trying something different with a photo album…

Friday, May 11, 2012

Book Review


Book Review: Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson
When I put the Walter Isaacson biography of Steve Jobs on hold at the Free Library of Philadelphia, I was apparently like the 150th person on line. So months later, it was finally my turn to take a crack at the tome.
Now, in full disclosure, I didn’t have a Mac or any apple products at all till my husband bought me an Ipod nano around 2006 or so. Despite learning to program with my dad when I was eight and being a computer science major, I hadn’t really gotten my hands on an apple product. Apple products weren’t made to be opened and messed with, so we didn’t have one. (One small experience in college trying to write in smalltalk to interface with excel was about the sum of my exposure.)
So it was curiosity more than anything that led me to the Isaacson’s book, which attempts to demystify Steve Jobs.  Jobs definitely lived his mythology – the wanderer who would go out into the wilderness and bring back wisdom to the masses. It’s a theme that repeats itself throughout his life. He wasn’t going to realize his full potential till he had traveled the wanderer’s journey in his own mind. He was going to go away to an expensive college far from home to gain wisdom.  Later he would travel to India and travel the villages looking for enlightenment. Interestingly, his best work at Apple was after he was kicked out, when he returned from exile. Jobs took time in exile seriously, he sold all of his stock when he was kicked out of Apple (except one share) and worked for free for several years when he came back. I think he may have almost drove Apple into the ground at the beginning because he was subconsciously trying to get kicked out. He needed to have a heroic return to fulfill his own prophecy. Because of this personal vision of his being a technology sadu as it where, Apple was always going to be a consumer company (versus Microsoft or Oracle, which mostly sells to institutions).
There was a lot about his personality and how he ran Apple that has a lot in common with cults and guru-disciple relationships. Tech people generally don’t have “reality distortion fields”.  However Jobs wasn’t a tech guy. He was a marketing and design guy mostly.  That’s one of the things that really surprised me; I had assumed the founder of Apple was a true tech guy. He wasn’t.  However, reading this I don’t think money and material things really mattered to him either. I think he was playing with a different set of rules in his head. He had some internal karma scale that weighed his decisions and how he approached things. The level of complexity he dealt with – in Apple and Pixar – was more about his own personal journey and mental ability and less about financial ambition (it was more of a spiritual and intellectual ambition).  
That there was some underlying mental illness is not in doubt.  He had personal qualities that could only be tolerated in a company he owned. Any employee who acted the way he did would be fired anywhere else in any organization.  That he accomplished a great deal is not in doubt – but was it worth the price paid? Is everything he did for technology worth the price his children paid? While there was much to be admired and learn (his laser like focus and quest for simplicity) there was much that made me cringe (family neglect). Overall it’s a book worth reading on many levels, though reading it with an eye to emulation carries some road hazards.

Sunday, May 6, 2012

Book Review


Book Review: Thinking in Pictures by Temple Grandin, PhD
Recommended by a co-worker, and made into an HBO movie with Claire Danes, “Thinking in Pictures” is effectively Dr. Temple Grandin’s attempt to explain how, as an autistic person, she thinks differently. As a computer science major, I am kind of fascinated by this subject. Had I gone to college 5 years later I probably would have majored in neuroscience (I did a lot with AI).  Also autism and a host of other “chronic” conditions are a true challenge for our country’s health system.
Dr. Temple Grandin is responsible for designing a large number of the cattle processing facilities in the U.S., and claims it was her autism that allowed her to empathize with the cattle and so design facilities that would be more effective in handling them. She is also famous for her public relations work for autism. I was disappointed to learn that Ger and I wouldn’t be in Philadelphia when she comes to speak at the Academy of Natural Sciences later this month, but I finished the book anyway.
While I was expecting to learn from this book, I wasn’t expecting some of the things she wrote about to ring so true. For example, she wrote how she disagreed with a college professor who “speculated that humans had to develop language before they could develop tools.” I remember learning this in college too and just couldn’t see it. You don’t need language to build a tool. (How a person reacts to this statement is actually a good way to differentiate if a person is a visual or language based thinker).
Also, she writes how she enjoys reading since it is like ‘taking in information” that she can then access later when necessary. I must admit this is why I like to read, especially about people who have experiences or situations I most likely will never be in. Reading her descriptions about her thought processes made me realize I am a visual thinker as well.
From a health administration perspective, her book describing autism and what worked for her is very illuminating. The big takeaways here are that all autistic people associate details into categories to form a concept and “fear is a dominant emotion in their autism”.
What helps these people function most (and what helped her) is behavior therapy. For example, she didn’t have a concrete visual corollary for the abstraction known as “getting along with people.” It wasn’t until she had enough experiences that she could address this deficiency. She needed to be taught how to behave in situations because she couldn’t pick up subtle cues.
No doubt part of the reason she couldn’t pick up on subtle cues is because her nervous system is in a state of always being “on guard”. In autistics, their “flight or fight” response is always just a hair trigger on. She writes “my nervous system was in a state of hyper-vigilance”. For her, prescription drugs helped modulate her nervous system.
One of the reasons a person with autism is always in a state of tension is that they have sensory differentiations that are very real. People with autism experience touch, light, smell and sounds differently.  This is the one area in the book where Grandin gets a bit touchy. “I can emphasize with a laid-off worker because I can visualize his family sitting at the dining room table trying to figure out how the bills will get paid,” she writes. But she doesn’t understand how people can’t imagine or emphasize that other people who might process senses differently.
We know from “Blink” that under traumatic situations, a regular person can become autistic-like. Grandin writes that this is perhaps this flight-or-fight anxiety is “an old anti-predator instinct that has surfaced?” One of the keys to truly helping autistics is to help them create a situation that allows them to feel calmness, since then that becomes tangible and they can transfer that emotion. If the flight or fight response is on, not much of anything is going to be happening.
In general this was a fascinating book, which will spawn lots more reading (I have lots of notes). With autism being such a big topic, this book should almost be required reading for everyone on the planet. While a lot of the advice would be relevant to all people (for example she advises taking autistic children to the science museum and doing experiments with them) it is good advice nonetheless.  I really have an improved understanding how “animals and autistic people think without language”. I’m eager to see the Claire Danes movie now and see how it compares.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

End of April

Random thoughts and pictures this week… My parents stayed with us week before last, and when my mom is around I’m reminded more about the traditional South American fare I grew up with.

It kind of struck home as my mom cleaned the lettuce that was growing in the backyard. She wasn’t about to let it go to waste!
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It was nice to come home and have poached salmon with a side of rice and beans. With the salmon, it’s a more American interpretation of what I grew up eating. Fish, Meat, Pork, rice and salad, plantains and avocado slices.
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While I will eat anything and love to try to make different types of things, the core is always these staples, these comfort foods.
While Matt has taken to the rice as below (we were at a pot luck at his day care and he did try a couple of things)..
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This just broke my heart…
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Matt and Emmett duking it out over the Lays potato chips. What you can’t see is piping hot from scratch shortbread cookies on the tray on the table just out of range of this photo.

Well at least he’s eating, right? Gas is off in our house so no baking this weekend (or hot showers). Ger says, “If you want to do something domestic, you can try cleaning the house.” (NOT LIKELY!)

Meanwhile I found this picture of blueberry muffins from earlier in the month. Spring and summer is coming which means fresh blueberries, so I was cleaning out the freezer to make room.
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I’ve very excited to try some spelt and vegan blueberry muffin recipes this summer.

With all the rain, it’s been hit or miss at Soccer.
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I think the combination of spring, rain and a super busy week made me crave hot oatmeal this week. It just really hit the spot.
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