Book Review: Brothers Emanuel by Dr. Ezekiel J. Emanuel

Brothers Emanuel: A Memoir of an American Family by Ezekiel Emanuel
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I thoroughly enjoyed this book more than I thought I would, considering it really isn’t a true memoir. In the book, Dr. Ezekiel Emanuel formalizes his own personal mythology behind the formative childhood of the Emanuel Brothers. In his version of their childhood, the three Emanuel boys, outthink, outfight and out charm family, friends, neighbors and any and all would be enemies to become the highly accomplished threesome they are today.
The price of forming such a mythology is that anything negative or uncomfortable is ignored or given extremely short-drift. There is not a lot of self-reflection or self-awareness, especially when it comes to their level of privilege. If these boys were not the Emanuel Brothers they’d have gone to jail or been expelled at various times in the narrative. I was incredulous when I read about how Ari stole his high school file and it was dismissed as amusing. If I had stolen my high school file from the office, I’d be expelled, no doubt about it. Towards the end of the book their ungratefulness at how much they had been given began to make me not like the narrator and this interfered with my enjoyment of the book.

Also, there is a sister listed on the diagram of the family tree, but no mention of her in the book or in the dedication. What is that about?

These boys who grew up in a brash, outspoken family and were encouraged to be precocious probably would have fared differently with different career choices. It’s no accident that they ended up in the subsets of medicine, politics and business where their brand of assertiveness is rewarded. For all the smarts and ambition these boys have, they didn’t become technologists or internet entrepreneurs for example. (You can shout as loud as you like it’s not going to make a computer program compile.)

With those caveats, I still enjoyed the descriptions of his childhood in Chicago (a lot of which will resonate with city kids across the board) and of the historical events the brothers witnessed. Overall, they seem like interesting people to have to a dinner party- if you could get a word in edge-wise and you did not take all the cursing too personally.


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Book Review: Linchpin by Seth Godin

Linchpin: Are You Indispensable? by Seth Godin
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

The underlying message of this book, that you are going to have to hustle and work harder than ever in today’s economy, is fundamentally true. For stating the obvious Godin gets three stars. That said just about all the supporting messages are better expressed in other books. The benefits of giving more than you receive are explored better in Grant’s “Give and Take”. The guidelines for making choices are in the spirit of “The Four Agreements”. Because these are explored better in other books (these are just two examples) and the treatment here feels cribbed, I took away a star.

I took away another star for tangents and extreme statements that have no supporting evidence. For example, before you throw away your kid’s Candy Land because Godin thinks it reinforces repetitive behavior in children know that he’s not an early education expert. Plus learning to take turns is an important first step if you have any hope of “providing a unique interface between members of an organization”. Knowing primary colors might also help later on when expressing and developing that highly valued creativity. Straying off message like this is distracting to the reader.

In general, the book is short and straight forward enough to be an easy read and no real harm is done with this book. However, I don’t get what all the raving is about. Three Stars.


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Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

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Max Ehrmann, "Desiderata".^[1]

Pre School Reading Comprehension Exercise

Hello- I wanted to start making a note of some of the things I've learned. Here is a pre-school / kindergarten level reading comprehension exercise that I think is just awesome and fun.

Plus I'm a "mean mom" and want to make sure my kid is paying attention during story time!

Prep Time- About 8 minutes with the photocopier
Activity Interaction Time - About 12-16 minutes plus however long to read the book

1) Get a book with a plot (pick a book that has a story line, with a beginning, middle and end).
2) Read the book together. Here I'm illustrating the steps with "Where the Wild Things Are"

This exercise is best with a picture book that has a plot.

3) Photocopy some pages from the book that have the key points. No more than 4-6.

4) Lay them out but not in order.

5) Now you ask your kid, "Which came first?" Now if this is a little overwhelming, you can always narrow it down to a choice. So you would say, "What happened first in the story? Did Max make mischief of one kind or another, or did Max sail away?"

6) Have them select the appropriate page.

Here I've laid out the options on a table.

6. Pin them in order on a wall.
7. Repeat until they are all in order.

Here Matt and I are doing the exercise. He really enjoyed it!

This is a lot of fun.

Timing Dinner, shrimp in shallot and white wine sauce

Some Fall Updates

This is one of the views on the way to our train station. I like these peaceful Philly streets.

Meanwhile, Matt and I have done some alphabet activities this week.

I need to get back on my food photography but this week we kept it simple. Meatballs....

... And a staple I like to make in the fall, butternut squash and red cabbage stirfry with tofu and ginger. This is just perfect in the fall, even though the picture looks weird.

Camping on the Beach-

We somehow pulled it together for our annual camping trip on the beach, even though it was a quick one. Ger really spearheaded this one, even though he was exhausted from shifts he still managed to get all our stuff in the car in record time.